Rabbit Holes đłď¸ #86
From healthy group chats to sustainable shit, the importance of doing nothing, extraordinary news, the mediocrity trap, and onboarding nature
THIS WEEK â
đłď¸ Rabbit Holes: Group Chats // Sustainable Shit // Doing Nothing
𤯠Reframings: Extraordinary News // Reading The World // Unproductive Love // Mediocrity Trap
đ¨ Creations: Onboarding Nature // Oreo Kintsugi // I Came By TrainRabbit Holes đłď¸
As always, 3 perspective-shifting rabbit holes to rewild your mind:
#1 đŹ Group Chats Are The Healthy Social Network We Were Promised
We wanted the internet to connect us more, but instead, we got social networks that are flooded with entertainment, sell us ads, make us addicted, overwhelm us, and polarize us. However, group chats might be the hidden oasis of the social internet and a model for using digital technologies to enhance human connection rather than degrade it.
âAll this [group chat] communication is, at the most basic level, just a matter of distributing data to differently curated selections of recipients, yet the precise curation has an immense psychological effect on what it is we feel weâre doing; it is not unlike the difference between nervously cracking jokes at a table of five new friends and pouring our hearts out to people weâve known for a decade. Those dynamics translate, slightly distorted and muted, through the screen. [âŚ]
The group chat can sustain indefinitely this thin wire of connectedness. Some might argue that this feeling is a deception, another screen-based way to stave off loneliness; I would say instead that it glows with potential. Because there is no practical end to the group chat, it can be a means of keeping the lights on, constellating a set of people who would otherwise be entirely separate. [âŚ]
And so this is something else technology has added to our human experience. I cannot claim that it is entirely good, but I can say that it feels â to me, on balance â additive, constructive rather than isolating. In the landscape of group chats, your social world tingles with life, in all directions, at all times, at your literal and proverbial fingertips. âConversationâ expands into something else altogether, something bigger and more chaotic and less clearly defined, but which is humming along beside me and with me even as I am supposed to be writing this right now.â
Âť The New York Times Magazine | How Group Chats Rule The World by Sophia Hagney
#2 đŠ The Shitty Part Of Sustainability
We take from the soil but donât give anything back. Thatâs basically the gist of this article, which explores the actual value of human excrementâ which was cutely called ânight soilâ back in the dayâand how we broke natureâs circularity by literally flushing it away, damaging nature even more in the process. Holy crap!
âAs our bananas, apples, lettuce, corn and rice grow, they extract nutrients from the land. That food is then trucked, shipped and flown to where we live â and where we eat it and excrete it. Yet, we donât return that organic matter back to where we got it from [âŚ]. We donât drive, sail or fly to return this organic bounty to the land. We flush it down the drain. [âŚ]
So, because we donât ship our shit back to where the food comes from, we keep perpetuating the redistribution of nutrients on the planet. Soils grow barren, so we use synthetic fertiliser, which isnât anywhere near as good as the real shit, and also is very polluting to produce. In our quest to rid ourselves from our dangerous dark matter, weâve broken the essential rules and laws of Mother Nature. By taking our poo out of the equation, we altered not only our agriculture, but the entire planetâs ecology. [âŚ]
We spend our efforts and money to remove the dangerous filth rather than to acquire and use a superb product of our metabolic bodies. And thatâs the leap of thinking we must achieve, as a 21st-century society, to fix the problem fully.
We have to de-stigmatise our own dark matter. [âŚ] When business people and entrepreneurs are once again bickering about who gets to lay their hands on humanityâs oldest gross domestic product, weâll know for sure that we have closed our metabolic rift.â
Âť Aeon | The power of shit by Lina Zeldovich
#3 𦥠Doing Nothing Is More Important Than Ever
Weâve already explored the importance of different views on work and productivity and the role of slowing down or disengagement. This article takes it another mind-bending step further by investigating how our distorted obsession with productivity influences our (mis)understanding of the non-human world. It ultimately asks the question: âWhen human productivity is the cause of so much damage, why is it so often presented as a solution for salvaging the planet?â
âIf idle time is needed to awaken our political selves, as Slouka suggests, it must be crucial to considering what citizenship might mean in a broader sense, beyond just a human context. The undirected attention that idleness allows can leave space for other relations, for other politics, for other ways of being. [âŚ]
Mostly, the work of non-human entitiesâanimal, plant, fungus, mineral, elementâremains illegible to us. This is not for lack of effort: ecologists and physiologists and statisticians map territories and count offspring and track mates, overlay mealtimes and prey densities, measure brain activity and body fat and stomach enzymes. The result is ordered groups and categories of activity, confidently enumerated and named and labelled in terms of productivity. Least flycatchers engaged in aerial acrobatics to snag insects on the wing is sustenance, from this perspective, not entertainment. Wilsonâs warblers hopping in the shrub birch branches, munching on little green inchworms, are engaged in functional foraging and not gustatory pleasure. The spruce grouse my black lab flushes from the woods is fleeing for survival, not searching for solitude and hermetic peace.
But are we really seeing these lives in their entirety? The porcupine trundling along the trail; the lynx with its unhurried paces along the road; the moose, when not browsing willow, not surveying for wolves, just standing in the brush looking out at the mountains?
When we think we understand the imperatives of the world, we constrain the possibilities for deeper understanding. Our interpretations of the actions of others reflect our own judgments; we observe what aligns with our expectations. When we hold this confidence, we act as though we can rule and organize the lives of those around us. What is lost in that certainty is both the autonomy of the lives of others and space for their self-determinationâfor their anarchy, in both idle and productive forms.â
Âť The Walrus | Doing Nothing Has Never Been More Important by Kate Neville
𤯠Reframings
A few short reframings that Iâve recently stumbled across:
âThe information in your news feeds is curated for interest or surprise. As such, the news is not a record of the ordinary but the extraordinaryâa reflection not of reality but of precisely that which is uncharacteristic of reality.â â Gurwinder
âWalking lets you read the world â and much like the slow, contemplative mental processes involved in reading a book, the pace with which one moves through the world while walking allows for a different, deliberative kind of seeing. You notice more. You think more.â â Audrey Watters
âRather than focusing on increasing productivity, it may be worth asking, âWhat would I be delighted to spend time on, even if it went slowly?â Direct your energy toward figuring out how to start what you want to do rather than thinking about how to shorten what you don't want to do.â â James Clear
âAbout half of my friends kind of hate their jobs, so they're moderately unhappy most of the time, but never unhappy enough to leave. This is the mediocrity trap: situations that are bad-but-not-too-bad keep you forever in their orbit because they never inspire the frustration it takes to achieve escape velocity. [âŚ] Terrible situations, once exited, often become funny stories or proud memories. Mediocre situations, long languished in, simply become Lost Yearsâboring to both live through and talk about [âŚ].â â Adam Mastroianni
đ¨ Creations
Some hand-picked, particularly thought-provoking innovations:
A Toolkit For Onboarding Nature // Oreo Kintsugi // A Council For Redistributing A Fortune // 'I Came By Train' Climate Heroes // A Fashion Collection Than Can Only Be Make With Oneâs Pre-Loved Clothes By Local Tailors // One Less Car
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Superb, especially the reframings bit
Insightful. As always.
Great job Thomas.